I have a step-daughter named Barbara..she has 3 exceptionally wonderful children..At least what we know of them
Actually we only know one well.. Kimmie. What we know about Kimmie is that she is beautiful, ..a well of untapped talent and absolutely loves her mother and will do anything to get her love.
We do not know much of the boys...Barb's husband, Kevin, really did not like us much..either.
SOO we were kept at a distance '
Well,.. having been a parent.. not the best .. but tried like hell. And working in social services.. I know the signs . and i call it like I see it.so Fred and I are threats ..
Barbara calls her Dad "sperm donor" she accuses him of things that only she could have been told. I do not play the games and she totally hates me..soo Her choice of weapons are her children. poor Kimmie is not allowed to talk to us..and the boys will never know their Grandfather..
Fred is magic..he looks like Santa ..He loves to read out-loud those classic stories..and uses the appropriate voices..He is magic and a wealth of information..more than can be learned in a lifetime...
This is about a bad divorce.. bad choices..and selfish revenge..the victims are and always will be the innocent.
If anyone is interested ..we have tried to mend the rift..but you cannot control an absolute controller.the weapons of choice for B are her children.. I hope someday that Fred and I will be able to connect with Kimmie, Kory and Kevin in a positive and loving way
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it's sad...and i'm sure hard for both you and fred. Sometimes, you just have to let it go...her kids will find you one day and you'll all be better for it (both the letting go and the finding). and, for the record, you're a great mom.
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